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While it is illegal to charge money for sex in most states, you can definitely command a fee for your company The kind of sugar baby you're imagining here is probably nubile, designer-label-hungry, and work-averse. But the reality is that men and women often seek out sex-for-patronage situations as a way to get their utility bills paid and maybe get a slight buffer from living paycheck to paycheck, Prada totes be damned.
We talked to two women who have "dated sugar" -- Julia, a recent college grad with a full-time job, and Fancy, a year-old Looking for online sugar baby student.
The word "sex" isn't going to show up on sugar dating sites, but Fancy points out that it's almost certainly going to be expected. You're fooling yourself if you create a profile on a site like Seeking Arrangement thinking otherwise. After all, you're going to be alone with men who, in her words, "feel like you owe them something, because you do if you want to get paid. This job Looking for online sugar baby percent paid companionship, including sex in almost all cases. According to Julia, "There's a specific dollar amount for the initial meetup.
I'm on the low end. From there it was 'Do you want to meet me again? What do you want to do? Do you want sex? But much like texting that one former co-worker to see if he's still selling Adderall, you gotta be up on your euphemisms.
Fancy breaks down the lingo: You can say things like, 'I'm looking for a long-term traveling partner,' which means you want money to travel. You just have to be a little bit more subtle than saying the direct exchange of funds or goods.
There are some exceptions to the sex requirement.
Fancy has gotten the occasional straightforward "companion" gig. Julia got into sugar dating to supplement a hour-a-week factory job that just wasn't cutting it, hoping to be treated to the occasional dinner out as a break from her regular strictly subsistence diet. I have Looking for online sugar baby tendinitis, my feet do weird things that they're not supposed to do.
Fancy's arrangements have been more big-ticket. But all those gifts were in her name and paid for in cash, because as she stresses, you really have to look out for yourself should things turn sour.
She has an former sugar daddy, his wife found out [about the arrangement], so to not get in trouble, he said [her friend] was extorting him.